Our Very Own Supergirl Saves the Day

Although, Super Woman may be more accurate.

She may or may not wear a cape, but not all superheroes do. She does however, have a day job and a secret identity (a must for any great superhero).

Of course I am talking about the beautiful and talented Darcy Graham.

I cannot say that I know Darcy well, but I know enough to know that I like her a lot and that she works harder than anyone that I know. If Darcy takes on a task; she makes sure that it gets done.

A couple of months back, I was part of a charity auction (along with Caleb Brouk), and that is when I first met Darcy Graham. Prior to that, I knew of her by name only, and that she was part of the Modified Dolls (Washington and Oregon Chapters).

What I soon learned was that Darcy was the total package, and there was nothing that she couldn’t do. It was like time didn’t play a factor in her daily life, because somehow she balanced and accomplished everything.

Darcy became the lifeblood of our auction, and while Caleb and I were out front, most of the artists and sponsors worked directly with Darcy. She was (and is) absolutely amazing, and in all honesty did more work than Caleb and I did combined. She was even up in front of the crowd with us as our third MC.

Our success was Darcy’s success.

So what else do I know about Darcy Graham?

She is married to Mr. Darcy Graham (also known as Dave Graham). Dave and Darcy seem to have it right as a couple. They work hard, turn around and work even harder, and then they play. Dave is a talented tattoo artist, an OG in the tattoo world, owner of Biofx Tattoo, and has that perfect sarcastic sense of humor. They are absolutely meant to be together in the best ways possible.

But this isn’t about Dave…

Darcy can bake. I have never met a cookie that I didn’t like, and Darcy delivers with every bite. In fact, I hope that Darcy reads this and feels the urge to bake me some cookies (yes…that is a hint).

Darcy loves her family, and would do anything humanly possible for the people in her circle. It’s not always easy putting other people first, but Darcy makes it looks easy. People can feel that her love and compassion are genuine.

I’m the better for meeting Darcy and having her play a role in my life. I look forward to getting to know her and Dave better as our lives move forward.

Darcy…I want to thank you for being the strong person that you are. For being a role model and inspiration to women everywhere. For being positive and a lover of life. For raising everyone else up. For just being you…thank you!!!!

(Photos taken from Darcy’s personal collection of photos on Facebook)

These vatos are the real deal… Ryan Snell and Frankie Webb…

Honor and Love to a Family That I Look Up To

Every person, every family, and every friendship has problems. Some issues are worse than others, and not everyone will understand. I have my fair share and so does my family.

There is no secret that I had, have, and will always have a bond of brotherly love and friendship with Bernard Owens. There was a big chunk of time where we did not communicate; not because of personal issues between us or a falling out, but because of consequences not related to our friendship.

When I was young, Bernard’s mom was the best, and the only other person who came close to her was Bernard’s grandma. In fact, the entire Owens family was really nice to me, and for that I will always have love and respect for them.

Since the time of my reconnection with Bernard, I have had the privilege to meet and talk with Vicky, Bernard’s wife. She is a true gem and one of the strongest people that I know. In all honesty, I don’t personally know her all that well, but it is easy to see who she is.

Vicky is funny, sarcastic, beautiful, nice, smart, strong, and loves her family more than words can describe.

I will not say that I have agreed with all of Bernard’s decisions in life, or that we were always on the same page when it came to things. We didn’t have to be; that was part of what made our friendship work. However, I do agree whole-heartily with his decision to marry Vicky and come forth with a beautiful family of their own.

Like I said, I don’t know Vicky all that well. I know part of her story, and some of the issues that she has gone through, but I am not going to pretend to understand her life. I do know that her decision to be in Bernard’s life and raise their family has been hard and glorious at the same time. She is the definition of what a good wife, a good mother, and a good friend is; and nobody can ever take that away from her. Nobody…those are her badges of honor.

I’m a person who is seeing the Owens family from the outside looking in through social media and limited conversations. There have been some bad calls in their game of life, but it doesn’t break them. They have an honor that others can’t or don’t understand.

Bernard is my family. Vicky is my family (even if she doesn’t know it yet).

In fact, next time that I am in the Yakima Valley, I’m going to ask Bernard’s folks to adopt me (officially or unofficially, just as long as there is food…ideally BBQ).

I’d make a good Owens. I could be that cousin that no one talks about, or the forgotten brother who you can hear walking in the attic when there isn’t supposed to be an attic. 

Much love Owens family!!!!

Remember that one time that I got my own trailer for that TV show that I was on?

Yes it was small, and yes it had a tape (cassette) player in the wall, but it was still the coolest thing ever.

I wonder if this is how Brando started?

LISTEN UP…A message from our Fearless Leader…Mayor Tim Leavitt

The Dreaming Zebra Foundation - Charity Auction

https://www.facebook.com/events/894881090580807/

Adam Ferrara…do I need to say more?

When you get actor, comedian, TV show host Adam Ferrara encouraging you to come out and support our event, you should probably listen because he wouldn’t lie to you. He’s an honest man and this is for a good cause.

Adam is the real deal, and it is an honor that he’s showing us some love.

The Dreaming Zebra Foundation - Charity Auction

https://www.facebook.com/events/894881090580807/

Craig Michaelson actually created two videos promoting our upcoming charity auction…

1. The video that we have been sharing on social media.

2. The video that he actually recorded first, which is more risqué (PG-13 like), and I believe actually shows Todd Robinson in the background on one of the screens.